Starting Over

It’s wild! I never thought I’d be promoted into getting back into blog posting again. But I think it’s necessary now, especially since I’m in my 846,491th reset, lol.

Reflections on Life’s Challenges

I came across this Reddit Post of a young kid who went through what life is, and it happened HARD. He was so beside himself. I love reading on Reddit; it’s like one of my old lady pastimes now. Who needs a newspaper when there’s Reddit!?

Reading it made me think back to when I was his age. Is that a thing? Do we all think our lives are over at 25 when one or eight hiccups happen? Then I started reflecting on the other times I felt my life was over. At 27, 28, 29—34… It’s surreal how much life defines us and how quickly things change. I’ll be 39 next month. I am petrified! I’ve seen 40-year-old women, and they can be intimidating. I don’t want to be like that.

The Struggles of Starting Over

Even at this big age of 38ish, I just lost my job. I’m starting over again, trying to stay afloat while doing the right thing and being a better person. It’s so hard! I’ve definitely had a few depressing moments. Just the other day, I sat here feeling like such a loser. Like, girl, what is wrong with you?

If you’ve felt that way too, listen, we’re besties now! What prompted me was not the lack of funds or savings, or the urgency of bills due. Not even the unforeseen future of being homeless (again) or having another crash-out that would prompt a medical Lyft ride to the crazy house. Nope. It was the feeling that I wanted something more. I want to do more. I want to be financially free from someone else’s scrutiny and personal feelings about me because I don’t fit the clique. I said, “Dammit, I’m gonna make this work!” I’m going to build something bigger and better than what I’ve already got.

Embracing the Reset

Then, honestly, the reset didn’t seem so bad anymore. Granted, I did get my reality check and twisted my ankle that’s been broken. I had to sit down and nap. So what if I’m almost 40 and job searching yet again? I’m doing this to ensure I don’t end up homeless and can buy my cats that fancy ass shitbox for $200. It is what it is.

It might feel like the end of the world for a temporary moment. But that doesn’t mean it’s the end of your book. Just a funky chapter that we will NEVER EVER talk about again. Unless it’s reset 846,492!

Finding Hope in Tough Times

So, I hope this comes as some encouragement to whoever needs a pick-me-up. Better days are ahead! But we’ve got to deal with the bad ones first so we know how to appreciate the good ones. It takes a few head bumps to really get it right. That’s perfectly okay!

The Journey Ahead

As we navigate through these ups and downs, it’s essential to remember that every setback is a setup for a comeback. Life is full of twists and turns, and it’s okay to feel lost sometimes. What matters is how we choose to rise from those moments.

Building a Support System

Having a support system can make all the difference. Surround yourself with those who uplift you. Share your struggles and victories with friends or family who understand. They can offer perspective and encouragement when you need it most.

Embracing Change

Change can be daunting, but it often leads to growth. Embrace the unknown and see it as an opportunity to reinvent yourself. Each reset can be a chance to explore new paths and discover your true passions.

Setting Goals

Setting realistic goals can help you stay focused and motivated. Break them down into smaller, manageable steps. Celebrate each achievement, no matter how small. This will help build your confidence and keep you moving forward.

Conclusion

In the end, life is a beautiful mess. It’s filled with challenges, laughter, tears, and everything in between. Embrace your journey, and remember that every chapter, no matter how difficult, contributes to your unique story. So, here’s to the next reset—may it be filled with growth, joy, and endless possibilities!